FVACFSS Spring Newsletter – 2024

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Message from the board of directors 

Fraser Valley Aboriginal Children & Family Services Society

Sqwélqwel  -  Xyólheméylh Spring 2024 Newsletter
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Board President Jade Victor

Xyólheméylh Board of Directors President’s Message

Ey Swayel – Good day. Welcome to our Spring Newsletter.

We were very pleased to be able to honour the staff of  Xyólheméylh on April 25 at the Staff Appreciation Event. Board members Phil Hall, Marion Mussell and Glenda Campbell were there to represent the Board and pass on our heartfelt appreciation for all the staff do. We are very grateful for their hard work and dedication.

We have some changes to our Board membership to tell you about.  Latasia (Tosh) Commodore resigned from the board and we thank her for her service. Jennifer Janik also stepped down, as she was elected to the Tzeachten Council and has started the exciting journey of working for her home community. We know that Jennifer will be a valued member of the Council. We thank her for her service over the years, including as former President of the Xyólheméylh Board of Directors and wish her all the best in the future.

We continue to have seven strong Board members who continue with the governance and oversight required. The board has a breadth of expertise and experience and a strong vision and mission for Xyólheméylh. We are looking forward to our meeting in June when we will review our strategic goals.

Thank you to the City of Langley for recognizing the volunteer work of our Board members at an event in April. It was an honour to be one of the many attendees who participate in Langley’s  non-profit sector.

We are looking forward to seeing many of our community partners, caregiver/support parents and staff at events over the summer. We have several events in the works, including a Fun Day for Caregivers on July 18 at Tzeachten Sports Field and the return of our bi-monthly Setting the Table events in July and August.

Temqethelmot - Jade Victor

Message from Executive Leadership Team 

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We at Xyólheméylh are privileged to work in a time when we can walk alongside communities on their journey to take care of children and families, and we have the ability to support them in a way we have not ever been able to before. These are exciting times, and yet this landscape is rapidly changing and requires incredible flexibility, openness, and continuous learning for our staff.

As we spring into a new and beautiful season, we have paused to recognize our hardworking and dedicated staff.  We were able to show our appreciation at an event on April 25 at Shxwhá:y Cultural Centre. We celebrated milestones within Xyólheméylh, shared a meal and played Slahal. It was a wonderful event and so good to be able to bring everyone together. You can view the photos further down in the newsletter.

Since the closure of Building 1 in Chilliwack, our staff have been dispersed in multiple smaller office locations. We are excited to share news about a new office that will bring our Family Services, Guardianship, FDR and Resource workers back together and we believe this will improve collaboration and accessibility for families and caregivers. We are grateful for everyone’s patience while we have been doing our best to maneuver this change.

We were very honored to be nominated for a Fraser Valley Cultural Diversity Award for Effective Human Resource Practices in April. Xyólheméylh has long embraced support from our Elders to share teachings, wisdom, experience, and traditions with our children, youth, and families, but in recent years we have offered these same practices to our employees in a variety of ways. This has included offering traditional medicines to employees facing challenges, including smudging, brushings, nourishing the body and spirit before doing important work, and ongoing access to Elders to support their personal and professional wellbeing.

Xyólheméylh is now working on interview practices and our HR policies to acknowledge that the typical processes are very colonial, and our goal is to create cultural safety. Through this work we have looked to traditional teachings to remove barriers and allow potential employees to bring their whole self to the process.

While we continue to have a long journey ahead of us, we look forward to continuing to walk this path with our employees, Elders, communities, and partners. We are very proud of all the good work our staff continue to do during these changing times.  We’re very proud of the progress our Human Resources team has made! This is just one example of the great work being done by staff.

ELT – Rhea Del Vecchio, Rod Spitzig and Laura-Dawn Wilkin

Medicine Teachings with Cynthia Myran

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Plantain

Plantain looks like a weed. It is very high in Vitamins A and C and can be chewed. It can be used as a salve for sunburns or to stop bleeding and to treat inset bites and psoriasis and skin issues. Cynthia Myran, Xyólheméylh Elder says it can also be smoked and in fact reduces cravings for cigarettes. She also warns that it might cause diarrhea and low blood pressure. psoriasis. To make a salve, infuse the weed with olive oil in a slow cooker for a few days. You can also add shea or mango butter, a little Vitamin E as a preservative and bees wax.

Chaga

Chaga (pictured above) is a mushroom that grows on birch trees and is used to build the immune system, treat illnesses, and helps fight cancer and the side effects of cancer treatment. Chaga also helps with diabetes, sore joints, arthritis. It can also slow down the aging process. Xyólheméylh Elder, Cynthia Myran drink on the go is an elixir with Chaga. She mixes cranberry juice (the pure unsweetened kind) with chaga, clover and liquid collagen. She tries to have this drink every day and says it is a good energy booster.

- Teachings from Elder Cynthia Myran

                                
 Meet an elder: leo nolin
FVACFSS Spring Newsletter – 2024
Leo was born in 1941 to Red River Metis “Michif” parents in Manitoba. He was one of seven children. “I spent my growing years learning my culture and the importance of family,” says Leo. “Family used to take care of family. I spent a lot of time with a variety of relatives until I was five years of age.”
 
Leo and an older brother were then placed in a residential school called St. Joseph Vocational School in Winnipeg. “My experiences were those of a six-year-old,” says Leo. “I have a lot of memories of it, good and bad, but the bad memories I avoid,” says Leo. The bad memories were mostly of the nuns, not the priests. “The nuns all seemed to carry big straps,” says Leo. 
 
His good memories include a racetrack across the street which he could see from the third floor of the dormitory where he slept. He could see the track from his window and he remembers cheering for a horse called Blue Boy. His older brother’s experience was not as mixed. A few years ago he and his older brother took a trip to Mexico where they discussed their experiences. “What he described was horrendous,” says Leo. 
 
Leo was reunited with his family briefly, then separated again and was a ward of the state from 1951 to 1961 and didn’t see his siblings for the next ten years. When he was ready for high school, he was given the choice of going to a high school in Winnipeg or going to work on a farm run by the Catholic monks. He chose high school but was eventually kicked out and worked at a variety of jobs before going  to barber school. 
 
He eventually moved on to be a hairdresser for women and travelled to Paris and London to study. In 1979, Leo moved to British Columbia. He says it was a combination of running from something and running to something. He wanted a fresh start. After 35 years in the hair industry, Leo began a new career in social services. He started studying in a number of programs that specialized in working with youth, being a life coach, and family therapy and went on to work with Xyólheméylh as well as VACFSS, FAFP and various MCFD programs.  
 
Leo retired in 2020 but still wanted to be involved with the agency. “I still have the passion to contribute my time to work with families,” said Leo. “I’ve seen a great deal of changes in the agency,” says Leo. “I’m glad to see they’re bringing more culture into the agency.” 

 

a story to entertain

In this video Rupert Richardson gives a teaching on the drum. Rupert is from the Guskimukw, Nuxalk, and Chippewa First Nations. He is a PhD candidate at UBC and has worked in the field of education for 15 years. His research and community engagement centres around intergenerational healing, decolonization and post-secondary education.

Meet a Board Member: Marion Mussell

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Marion Mussell is a member of the Sqwá First Nation. Though born and raised at Oneida of the Thames in Ontario, she has lived in Stó:lō Territory for over 50 years.  She has previous Board experience with Xyólheméylh, having served two terms during which time she served as President and Vice-President.

Marion is happy to serve on the Board and likes to work as part of a collaborative team. Teamwork can ensure that the work of Xyólheméylh is not only meeting standards and requirements but exceeding standards and requirements on all levels of governance and operations to provide the best services possible to our families and communities in a “good way.”

Marion believes that the child must be at the center of our work, and we must be mindful that the child’s family and community are integral parts of the child’s identity, values, belief systems and well-being. 

Xyólheméylh staff appreciation day
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Xyólheméylh held its Staff Appreciation event on April 25 at Shxwah:y Village. We celebrated staff with service milestones, shared a meal and played Slahal. Rhea Del Vecchio, Executive Director of Practice told staff: "I appreciate that you show up every day and are willing to help, not just the families, but each other." 

Youth Hub

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Xyólheméylh has opened a Youth Hub at our office in Chilliwack at 9345 Main Street. It's open to all Indigenous youth to drop in Tuesdays from 8:30 am to noon, and 1 to 4:30 pm and on Thursday afternoons from 1 to 4:30 pm. Youth can drop by to grab a snack or cook a meal, do laundry, charge their phones, have a shower, get support with job and school applications, and talk to a youth worker. There's also a  4-in-1 Games table with pool,  air hockey, ping pong, foosball! There are crafts, cultural books, art supplies, homework supplies, drinks, snacks, coffee machine, gameboards, TV, Bluetooth speaker, etc!

There is a Resource board where youth will find upcoming groups or events, white board has some of the current local job opportunities. 

Questions about youth programming and the youth hub can be directed to Raven Little at: [email protected]

visions and voices gathering our voices
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The Gathering our Voices event was held in Victoria from March 19- 22, Nine Visions and Voices youth attended. They had opportunities to attend life skill workshops, cultural teachings , listen to stories from our Elders and Indigenous motivational speakers. All youth in care were blanketed and honored with a special dinner during the week.

upcoming events

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Setting the Table is back! It's open to everyone and happens every second Thursday afternoon in July and August, alternating between Chilliwack and Abbotsford. We hope to see you there!